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Old 11-02-2009, 08:22 PM   #6 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by Steve Pavlina View Post
In order to feel negative emotions from a situation that occurs (like a divorce), you have to assign the situation a meaning that disempowers you. That's a choice, albeit one that most people make unconsciously.
This is where we disagree. I honestly think that negative emotions are MORE empowering than positive when you react to them properly. Avoiding them and not working through them, to me, is cutting my potential power in half. Heh, and I just realized that that probably makes me a darkworker of sorts. lol

Although, I can understand what Erin just said about the relationship shifting as opposed to a full blown "divorce" in the sense that most face. Amicably splitting makes the emotional process easier, I suppose.
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