I know this probably has been discussed a lot on this forum, but I need some ideas/advices on how to stop concentrating on "the how" when manifesting.
I've learnt that intentions do manifest better when you kinda forget about them (again, here is a controversy - it says everywhere that you need to "hold the intention" in your mind every day for some time and still many agree that it's only manifested when we let go and even better "forget" - how is explained?)..
sometimes when I have a quick thought in my head "oh it'd be nice to have that" (without really knowing how it's possible and without really "wanting"/"intending" it and it'd happen sometimes the next day (happened a lot recently) which really amazes me, it's like a game with small manifestations..
nevertheless, when it comes to bigger things, ones that I REALLY WANT TO HAVE IN MY LIFE I'm constantly trying to find ways of making this happen, thinking over and over again about "THE HOW", coz I can't have this kind of attitude "oh it'd be nice to have" about things most important in my life and then let go immediatly..
oh and one more thing I have a problem with..
say, you want a black Ferrari and you want it as soon as possible because your life without Ferrari at the moment is just not satisfactory (I'm using Ferrari just as an example, I don't need a Ferrari particularly
)
ok, and here you go The Universe gives you a Ferrari, but a white one... and you wanted black.. so what do you do? get a white one (thinking that it's still a Ferrari and you may waste another ... years waiting for a black one)? or keep waiting?
I have problems deciding on whether to take the opportunity that may seem ver close to what you asked for but now perfect, coz I don't want to waste time waiting for another chance and again you never know where "the black Ferrari" might take you
confused a little
