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Originally Posted by reuniter  So it strikes me that "owning the doubts" is just giving yourself an excuse for failing to manifest the thing you want. There is no lack of certainty that reconciliation is what I want. I is in no way to my greater good that my boy ends up getting raised by my wife. She is not a responsible person. |
This can be as simple as just saying.. well it's possible that I won't get him back.. but I prefer this.. it doesn't have to be complex but the idea is don't force it.. as your doubts come up you can ignore them or just take them out by getting to the belief/definition your choice..
You apparently don't know what your higher self/perspective thinks or has planned maybe it is for your greater good that your child be away from you..
I return again to a suggestion that you do some divination if you want some clarity about what's going on.. because I say again this set of circumstances is not a accident.. people are going to be getting divorced, dying etc. all over by my understanding this is part of the shift not just random day to day stuff.. things are being setup for a
reason..
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Originally Posted by reuniter She is not a responsible person. |
This is a judgment I suggest you leave that.. it doesn't help.. sure she's not responsible.. so what? millions of irresponsible parents have raised millions of responsible kids
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Originally Posted by reuniter Not really following this. I have been protecting him for the last five years from all the things that all parents protect their children from. Of course there is an element of fear, I fear him getting killed. Keeping him from getting run over in intersections is not some abstract thing it is me protecting him so I am not seeing how there is something wrong with protecting a child. |
Protection is a illusion.. what are you protecting him from?
If you had my understanding of reality the answer would be..
answer: I'm protecting him from myself/ourselves
I didn't say there was something wrong.. I just suggested that the idea is that "everyone can take care of themselves" and that sometimes parents get so caught in protection and thinking about the person there raising.. they forget that simple truth.. they forget that if they were gone (and they don't like to hear this) there child would be just fine.. you ever wonder why some parents die when raising their kids??
It's very simple in the afterlife or the return to where we came from
they know/remember the truth that the child can take care of themselves.. they feel no guilt if they decide not to return to earth from that perspective.. as maybe you didn't know but it's possible to die at any time in this game and then choose to come back right where you left off