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Old 11-02-2009, 01:06 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by foxweasel View Post
... all i want is her back.
Reading what you wrote before she's either playing you, or confused herself.

There are different options:
- talk with her (face to face!) and make clear what it is you want / need. And listen very carefully what she wants / needs. And accept it if you want different things (i.e. no relationship).
- give her space. Tell her you'll be out of her life for some time so she can decide what she wants. And tell her you'll contact her not before that period has passed. She may contact you earlier if she has decided, of course.

What most certainly will not work is behave like a doormat, or being a needy, clingy guy.
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