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Originally Posted by brendannz  Yeah, but a girl's not really going to say "I'm rejecting you becasue you're a weak guy" she's going to say "you're a nice guy but..."
So I guess the guy thinks "that's my problem I'm too nice"
confusing world sometimes I guess. |
True indeed, I also believe he actually does think he's being 'nice'. After all, in his world 'going out of your way to do stuff for people' = nice. Even if they didnt ask for it
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I used to be like this, and still am actually to a certain point. It's quite hard to come to terms with. Especially if, in the past, not giving in resulted in violence (although thankfully, I wasnt really in that much of a desperate situation).