You cannot escape negative thoughts.. that's the first thing that comes to mind.. you have to own them or ignore them..
If I were you I would accept responsibility for my reality.. I would accept responsibility for creating everything you have in place now.. and I would besides for owning it.. let go and allow whatever to happen to be okay even if you think it's not in your best interest..
Perhaps it would help you to do a little divination.. I use a website for tarot card divinations sometimes.. I can forward you a url..
If you haven't heard the "new age" news many in the "new age" circle are talking about how the energy has been paced up.. how more is coming and it's causing all kinds of shifts and life altering changes to everyone on the planet.. it's more than possible you just created one for yourself.. perhaps this woman isn't the right one for you, perhaps you need to experience what it's like to not be a dad full time.. I'm sure you don't want to hear this stuff.. but I seriously suggesting you own the worst case scenario even as you hope for your bestest best
Your story smells of victimization even though you don't use that word.. you try and use words like neutral/positive.. my wife will come around etc. but it sounds like to me you more like feel like you're a victim.. you have no power over anything because she's decided.. and technically that's right.. you don't have power over another person.. if they decide something you can't do JACK about it.. you can try and manifest to a reality where they come around but to do so you first have to be okay with WHO you are and also okay with the possibility they won't come AROUND..
1. Doubts about whether I can manifest a reconciliation.
Own these doubts by saying you would be okay if there was no "reconciliation" anything less and you can't manifest what you want.. and anything less and you will just react NEGATIVELY should it be in your HIGHEST GOOD that the relationship ended..
I don't believe you're a victim.. I believe you manifested your life to this point on purpose.. it has nothing to do with your wife's mind.. it has everything to do with you and your PLAN..
2. Depression about being separated from my son.
Separation is a illusion.. you can be sitting in a room right now.. but you're not separated from yourself (let's call that your higher self) and you're not separated from your son.. and at any second you can make connections spiritually to them.. try and remember that technically as much as you like to call your son your SON there not your son.. there your BROTHER.. you and he are both made of the same one.. you and he are copies of the creator/allthat is.. you are not separate from it.. you are it.. (there is a idea on the planet that says we have to take care of another.. this is not true.. your son can manage on his own without out.. accepting this idea will help you a lot.. not cause it's negative but because it's empowering for your reality.. I would suggest when raising your son.. you raise him as a brother.. for that's what a person really is.. the idea of protection is FEAR of control of reality.. we are all in control of reality.. some of us just don't realize it concsiously
)
So in your depression tell yourself the truth.. you LACK of nothing.. you are connected, you will be connected again, there is no LACK only illusion or pretend disconnection of this reality..
Rather than cry uncontrollably about loss.. get up and dance/sing about the truth that you are connected and that there is no loss.. I understand this is hard aspect to take.. but it is the truth and if you can embrace that perspective you and HE are better off!
3. Intense loneliness because the boy I have cared for as much as his mother has cared for him has been taken away.
You are not alone.. you have the creators love.. you have your inner self's love.. why don't you reach out in your mind and have a little tap, okay?
Ask this simple question in your mind.. "Am I alone?" "Am I loved" if you are in the right state.. that question will be answered if you don't invalidate it.. if it helps you out.. call for more help.. "Say I could really use some help being cheered up and more positive at this time" and believe me when I say.. that help will show up you may not recognize it.. but it will be there
Loneliness is a negative emotion it is a statement of lack.. I suggest you pull yourself out from this lack.. and start to at least work on neutral if not being positive.. these things serve you.. negative serves you too.. it's just do you really want to be there? when you claim you'd like to be somewhere better?
4. Loss of the ability to concentrate on my work and market myself.
Stop letting circumstances effect you.. straight from my teachers mouth..
Circumstances don't matter, only state of being
matters
What does this mean you ask?
Okay it means.. that if you're sitting in jail, if you're sitting in hell, if you just got out of a car accident after your wife died and son was imprisoned for murder! That doesn't
MATTER
The only thing that matters is how you feel.. cause in that state of being/feeling.. is your point of attraction.. here is my teachers clue about this "matters =
Manifestation"
The typical way any human takes change, death, lack, victimization etc. is take on a negative viewpoint.. all these sentences to you are about the idea of taking on a positive viewpoint.. if you can't make it to positive just work your way up.. go for NEUTRAL..
Many on this forum like the teacher "abraham" maybe now's a good time to hop on youtube and see if you can like what they're saying etc. if that message doesn't resonate I would search for answers/teachers that do resonate..
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Originally Posted by reuniter  I want to try the manifestation techniques but I am afraid that the spiral of negative emotions are overwhelming my positive intent.
How do I escape the negative spiral and manifest a positive resolution that has my wife and child come back to me? |
By first accepting and "owning" the negative.. even getting in touch with the definition/belief that there created from.. my teacher says the NEGATIVE emotions are actually a good thing cause he says "Now I know I have a belief/definition out of alignment with my truth, THANK YOU very much for telling me" is what he suggests..
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Originally Posted by reuniter I have never used medication before but I am starting to think I need some right now just to get me calm enough to do the work I need to do.
Will medication interfere with manifestation? |
No it won't interfere.. if you absolutely insist it will make you feel better then take it.. but if I were you (and technically I am
) I'd worry that I was substituting medication for looking at the problem.. the problem won't go away.. and you can turn that problem from being about your wife/child to being about medication..
You don't need medication to
operate no one does.. but again if you believe it will help you.. then take it cause you've made that into a belief.