What's the opposite action of 'seeking approval'?
Just what
rei said.. but I'll say it again.. the opposite of 'seeking approval' is to approve of one's self, to validate one's self, to realize that others approval is not important..
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Originally Posted by NicB  I've got to change this mental habit of mine. I've just got to stop subconsciously seeking approval. I understand intellectually that i shouldn't seek approval. But it just sorta happens anyway and i don't realise. |
Spend some time on some self love.. spend a hour, a day, a year being yourself without others.. spend some time doing what you love alone (unless you insist it has to be with others)
Anything running in the subconscious is something you allowed to be put there.. so take control of your reality/life and change it.. not by
manipulating the mind with more programming but by saying.. "that is not me" "this is me"
Imagine that you walk into the office happy in being you and around you.. you see others going about their games of
judgment and
lack but you see yourself not getting involved you solidly love yourself, you solidly feel compassion for those around you stuck in uncomfortable feelings but when they come to you and say "jack who's side are you on?" "does that dress make Leigh look fat?" "man I can't believe that president he's ruining everything" instead of answering you.. say "I don't want to be involved" "that's none of my business" "I'm happy being me.. thank you very much!"
Hmm, i don't think i really understand this concept. It doesn't really "add up" in my head.
How can everything be created for just me?
Well, okay I told you the truth and I didn't.. understand first the 2nd law of all realities.
2. The 1 are all, and the all are 1.
So we are all the same being and in this game we are interacting with each other.. so in that extent the statement is true
But looking at it a different way as in.. I couldn't have thought of toast or jam or "single side roofing w/ double frame joints"
(again technically you did.. but for this conversation yes.. you are interacting with other version of YOU from different perspectives) (I would for the record never suggest the idea that everyone else is some kind of lie or fake
)
So if you take this idea + another idea from my teacher.. that there are billions of realities.. not just 1 reality.. but billions to the Nth power.. then you understand that you are in your own reality and you should do what's best for you in any moment.. cause it's your reality
My teacher was at one of his conferences and he was asked "Bashar I understand there are multiple realities?"
Bashar: Yes
Q: Is there a reality right now where there is a fork stuck inside your head?
B: Yes and in that reality matter is transmutable
So I ain't saying the concept above isn't mind blowing.. I have a hard time with it too
but the idea is as I understand it every single version of earth exists right now.. from nuclear war earth to utopia earth etc. and we choose our earths by our vibration in every second.. that's my understanding.. I didn't say it wasn't a wallop
Could you elaborate on this concept? (Or direct me to a link where i can learn?)
I don't have any great links to offer you.. these are just some of the teachings I have picked up from mainly listening to my teachers audio recordings
There is a link out there for simulated reality (google that) and you'll find the wiki that talks about how scientists think it's possible to build a computer in the future that will allow us to simulate realities and individual indenties?
Actually I lied I just remembered I saved a great recording of bashar on multiple realities only yesterday or the day before..
YouTube - Bashar - Infinite Number of Parallel Earths to Choose From