Hi Cheery,
Based on your bf's actions, it seems like it is time to dump him. If he is texting sexual messages to your roommate and telling you that you are not as attractive as other women, why give him any more opportunity to continue hurting you?
There are a lot of nice guys out there who would treat you much better than that. Think about why you are choosing to be with a man who is insulting you and use this as a learning experience. Since this is your first serious relationship, I am sure that there are many things you have discovered about yourself and what you want from a partner/lover/bf, etc... Next steps might be to think about what kind of man do you want to attract into your life? what is your ideal relationship?
You set the standard for how you want to be treated. If someone is not respecting you and giving you what you want, it is usually a sign to move on.
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