[eternomi]

When you focus on the outflow, then that reflects in your own reality as other beings trying to outflow to you as well so long as you don't have a belief that says "Oh I can only give, but I cannot receive because receiving is evil!"..

You focus on the outflow, and do not worry about the inflow because you already know if you are truely outflowing (helping, contributing, etc), then you will get that reflected back to you. Obviously, you have to be genuine. If you are still thinking your own well being in the back of your mind, then that will surely reflect in your reality. You can't deceive "the universe". Easier said than done for sure.

I am saying this to clarify the fact that you don't have to pick inflow vs. outflow. You don't have to say to yourself "I've been outflowing for a while, now I need to inflow". Since your world is a reflection of who you are on the inside, I don't think you want to focus on inflow much. That will reflect to the other beings in your world and you will experience competition, fighting, scarcity, etc. to the extent you focus on inflow.