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marinik · 11-01-2009, 05:58 PM

Well boys I have the revers problem. When ever I try to say something is bothering me, and I only do it when it is really getting on my nerves or hurting me... then I get YOU ALWAYS, or YOU NEVER.... each time I have to teach my husband how to "fight" for his right not to agree or what ever this way... and not get into this type of nonproductive blaming... or visiting old events.. I am trying to look at the future and he is looking at the past

, that realy gets on my nerves!

Just to point out that you do not have the exclusivity on this!

11-01-2009, 05:58 PM	#3 (permalink)
marinik Legendary Member Join Date: Mar 2008 Location: Where Living and Loving and Laughing are written into the Constitution Posts: 14,240	Well boys I have the revers problem. When ever I try to say something is bothering me, and I only do it when it is really getting on my nerves or hurting me... then I get YOU ALWAYS, or YOU NEVER.... each time I have to teach my husband how to "fight" for his right not to agree or what ever this way... and not get into this type of nonproductive blaming... or visiting old events.. I am trying to look at the future and he is looking at the past , that realy gets on my nerves! Just to point out that you do not have the exclusivity on this!