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Originally Posted by moonrambler  I've wondered for a long time how a gay man manages to pretend to be hetero enough to have sexual relationships with girlfriends and get married and so on, y'know, trying hard to overcome the attraction to men. I've wondered if even if he's gay, he's just bi enough to pull it off somehow. I know two guys personally who went this route but once they came out, they never looked back. It's hard for me to imagine being that good of an actor. |
I do not really know as I never was in that situation, so if you want to know you really should ask those two. What I can imagine is that it is a form of misplaced heroism. The idea of accomplishing something through great toil pleases the soul of men but at the same time many men are not really in touch with what their true desires are. Hence, one finds so many men off on quests that are not worth it and not going anywhere. The details of it sure aren't pretty. Maybe he imagines that he is actually f*cking something else, maybe he is just stomaching having sex once every few weeks and not enjoying it but the physical stimulation is enough to get him of. Maybe he is watching gay porn on the side... who knows... all the while telling himself that it is all part of his learning process to be a real man.