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Originally Posted by Steve Pavlina  My lifelong commitment is to conscious growth. My commitment to my relationship is to Erin's growth and my own. Those commitments are still ongoing and haven't ended.
Our relationship continues although the marriage is ending. Erin and I still relate to each other. We had breakfast together this morning and talked on the phone for almost an hour before that. I don't perceive this as a failure when it's really a change of form to improve the ongoing relationship. |
For what it's worth, I consider my two year separation from my husband to be the best thing we ever did (not that I was thrilled at the time).
Ours was prompted largely by difficulties with living together - housekeeping issues really when you get down to it - and a good part of our happiness now is due to both of us being more aligned now with each other on that *and* having a very different living set up that gives us both clearly defined space.
Best wishes to you all through the process.
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