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rei · 11-01-2009, 01:59 AM

you're not an idiot and you're not stupid. i refuse to acknowledge that part of your post.

did you try to act out aggression with this person, like is she now worried you might try to hit her? or did you sleep with someone else?

i won't lie to you, trust is very, very hard to rebuild. but not entirely impossible, as long as a person actually wants to give a second chance. if they don't want to give a second chance, well, there's not a whole lot we can do because it is their choice.

i think the things Bertrade said to you are really helpful advice as well.

11-01-2009, 01:59 AM	#7 (permalink)
rei Family Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: earth, everywhere and nowhere Posts: 9,713	you're not an idiot and you're not stupid. i refuse to acknowledge that part of your post. did you try to act out aggression with this person, like is she now worried you might try to hit her? or did you sleep with someone else? i won't lie to you, trust is very, very hard to rebuild. but not entirely impossible, as long as a person actually wants to give a second chance. if they don't want to give a second chance, well, there's not a whole lot we can do because it is their choice. i think the things Bertrade said to you are really helpful advice as well.