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Originally Posted by Johnny Soporno  To be honest, Cylon, there DEFINITELY are 'Nice Gals' who set themselves up to be trod upon, in precisely the same ways as 'Nice Guys' do - the only major difference is that "Nice Guys" don't usually have ANY sex, excepting occasional "mercy fcuks" from the women they passive-aggressively hound. "Nice Gals" have sex with guys whom THEY WISH would stick around, but who come to despise the "Nice Girl" nearly immediately, and flee. |
Yeah there are weak pushovers of both sexes. Maybe it just comes from being a guy but this term "nice guy" to me means a guy who basically doesn't get girls at all, other than the mercy screws or rebounds you mention. It's a socially awkward guy who is more often lonely than not. At a base level, like most women, these "nice gals" still are never alone or without someone. So I don't see how the two mean the same thing. She may be with the wrong guy, but she's always got a guy. When it comes down to the bare necessities of at least having human companionship, the girls always come out on top.
Seems Midasgirl was talking about a person with weak personal boundaries. I'm talking about the "Nice Guy" stereotype of a guy who just can't relate to people and watches everyone else get laid (or having relationships if that's his desire). Including the nice gals, who are always in relationships, and have no problem getting sex. But I guess we all have our own definitions.