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Originally Posted by cylon  I said you tried to co-op the term so women wouldn't be excluded, every thread on this forum that mentions something regarding men usually has women come in and say "women too, women too", this topic is obviously about something specific to men. But, hey, no biggie. |
To be honest, Cylon, there DEFINITELY are 'Nice Gals' who set themselves up to be trod upon, in precisely the same ways as 'Nice Guys' do - the only major difference is that "Nice Guys" don't usually have ANY sex, excepting occasional "mercy ****s" from the women they passive-aggressively hound. "Nice Gals" have sex with guys whom THEY WISH would stick around, but who come to despise the "Nice Girl" nearly immediately, and flee.
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Originally Posted by cylon As far as sex, when you said "conquest" I figured you meant sex, a guy goes after a girl "conquers her" then moves on. |
I can appreciate that - so much of English is pre-charged negatively against consensual recreational sex.
Women refer to other women whom a particular man has had sex as "conquests" (whereas I have NEVER heard a man refer to any woman as a "conquest") and disparage them for having failed to fend them off.
Women complain about men's "game playing" while they learn, and reteach(!) that "to catch a man, you need to "
Play 'hard-to-get'" - thereby feigning indifference or worse, to force the man to become more heavily invested in his eventual conquest!
Every woman's most-critical fear, when it comes to having sex with someone new, is NOT for her reputation - THAT is just a side-effect of her
true fear.
It is her fear of 'FEELING USED' which terrorizes her, and prevents her from consummating more readily, despite her desires and urges. She figured that if she is seen to be 'too easy' by men, they will all merely want to 'use' her.
"Nice Gals" invariably end up 'feeling used', and despite the fact that had they not been such doormats, they would most-likely have begun ongoing healthy relationships with these guys, they complain bitterly about how rotten men are.
Johnny Soporno
Sexual Revolutionary