[Cat Dancer]

intentions that align well with inflow (from the universe into your consciousness):

* attract a new relationship

That's very interesting. My preferred direction is outflow. I don't mean as a moral judgment (though it sounds like it may have moral implications), but simply what I want to do: I get up in the morning, and I want to create: dance, perform, write software, create stategy, give advice. I become happier as I find ways to remove barriers from my being able to create all the time.

Then sometimes I think, "hmm, wouldn't I like to be in a relationship?" Women are surprised when I mention this; they say, "you're Cat Dancer! How can you not get dates?!"

But I feel very awkward trying to attract a new relationship into my life. I'm not shy, I do not lack skills for dating and/or seduction etc. If I wanted to I could be in a relationship. But I haven't wanted to. I'm uncomfortable trying to "get" something.

I've been confused by this. Why wouldn't I want to? Some of my past relationships have been painful, but not so painful that I'd be fearful about a new relationship. I'm not sensing negative emotions in me that would be holding me back, a barrier that would keep me from getting what I want. So what is it?

Now I wonder if simply the direction of energy might be wrong. To phrase it as "I want a relationship" works against my preferred direction.

And perhaps all it needs is a change in direction. For example, if I say, "I'd like to give you a kiss" instead of "I want a kiss", the physical result of a kiss may be the same, but perhaps it would be a more comfortable intention for me.