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cylon · 10-31-2009, 08:13 PM

So when a guy sleeps with a girl, he's supposed to assume it will be forever and ever amen, and if that's not the case, he's a jerk? That seems unrealistic to me.

Now if you're talking to guys who lie and say they love a girl when they don't, yeah they are jerks. But relationships take time to build and there's a lot of variety in this world, it would be abnormal to want to cut off all that variety forever unless there was real, compelling reason to do so.

BTW I don't think there is such a term as "nice gal". I think you just made that up so as to not feel women are being excluded from the discussion.

10-31-2009, 08:13 PM	#11 (permalink)
cylon Family Member Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 6,852	So when a guy sleeps with a girl, he's supposed to assume it will be forever and ever amen, and if that's not the case, he's a jerk? That seems unrealistic to me. Now if you're talking to guys who lie and say they love a girl when they don't, yeah they are jerks. But relationships take time to build and there's a lot of variety in this world, it would be abnormal to want to cut off all that variety forever unless there was real, compelling reason to do so. BTW I don't think there is such a term as "nice gal". I think you just made that up so as to not feel women are being excluded from the discussion. Last edited by cylon; 10-31-2009 at 08:16 PM.