don't worry about looks at first... i mean... keep bathing and stuff... and don't intentionally try to look stupid or anything, but don't focus on them.
the whole self worth thing... your looking at it as too shallow of a concept. "how can i improve my self image?"
it doesn't work that way. you aren't going to chant a mantra, or bench press your way to a better self image.
just realize what your asking. "how do i improve the way i view myself?"
its simple. improve what you're viewing.
This site is a great resource for that. look around and try to decide how to make your life better.
spend some time and figure out what really matters to you and set some meaningful goals for yourself.
realize that your time here is limited, and the sooner you realize that you can and should do something with your life, the better off you will be.
as an example, if you decide that you want to be a musician (this is completely arbitrary... you may want to be a doctor, lawyer, philanthropist, father, beach bum, philosopher, or all of the above) as you focus on how to become a musician, you will naturally start improving yourself and learning new things. As this happens, you will become more attractive. you will suddenly have something to talk about (in this example, music), and theres a very good chance that what you have to say will innately be interesting.
stop thinking about what you look like, and as you improve your value as a human, you will notice that you actually are attractive.
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