Thread: Drama triangle?
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Old 10-31-2009, 01:39 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by CoolBee View Post
You know what you have to do.
It feels cruel but it is not.
Forcing people to stand on their own 2 feet is good.
You know what it always says in those safety ads on planes? If you have to help someone with their oxygen masks - FIT YOUR OWN FIRST. You'll be no good to man nor beast if you don't work on your own issues right now, and believe me, she will be off emotionally-vampiring on someone else before you know it.

PS I don't believe for one minute she loves you - she probably thinks you have some kind of lingering love for her and will fall for it. DONT.
Have almost nothing to add, totally agree.

When ever I have intervened in this way with close friends, I who was the one blamed in the end so I stopped. I became a Life Coash
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