Thread: Drama triangle?
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Old 10-31-2009, 11:05 AM   #4 (permalink)
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You know what you have to do.
It feels cruel but it is not.
Forcing people to stand on their own 2 feet is good.
You know what it always says in those safety ads on planes? If you have to help someone with their oxygen masks - FIT YOUR OWN FIRST. You'll be no good to man nor beast if you don't work on your own issues right now, and believe me, she will be off emotionally-vampiring on someone else before you know it.

PS I don't believe for one minute she loves you - she probably thinks you have some kind of lingering love for her and will fall for it. DONT.
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