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Originally Posted by neilward2  I have come accross this type of woman over and over and over again in my line of work.
Simple answer: She has had trouble with previous guys messing her around combined with (I would suggest) family problems..... you will need to speak to her on that. She in insecure. She needs constant attention and praise. She wants to treat guys like they treated her. This is why she flirts with you, it's all a big game - she is treating you like her toy. Sorry to be so blunt. Bottom line: it is all about her.
Simple solution: I would not get into a relationship with this type of woman. There are plenty of other women around that will not cause you problems and mess you around. If you get in deep with her, you will not be able to escape, I have dated a woman like the lady you describe, and it was very hard work. It took a long time to break off my ties with her as you end up feeling like her protector as opposed to her lover.
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I agree with most of this. Some girls CRAVE confirmation that they are wanted, especially if they have been rejected in the past. Think of strippers, they get off on the attention that the man gives them. There is always a line. Most of the time it stems from bad previous relationships.