Some people say that looks aren't even genetic, they're culturally and socially determined and change over time.
Tyler of RealSocialDynamics often says something like this "Look at models over the past 100 years and look at how the ideals of beauty have changed."
Tyler's response here again would be something like "Probably, based on your post, you're pretty good looking and you just wish you could go all the way to model type looks. Its a lot easier for an ugly guy to accept that he just doesn't fit the ideal of model looks and to just live with the fact that his looks just don't matter."
I believe that you need to start doing things in your life that will make your respect yourself more as a person, and to see yourself as more of an adult. This begins with taking action towards whatever it is you want out of life.
I'm at a similar point, I'm 25 and worked in the career of software developer but am trying to wake up and find out more of what I personally want to do.
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