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Originally Posted by stripysweatergirl 
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I think the jealousy and possessiveness came about a result of being divorced. ..
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Maybe he was possessive and jealous which was the reason for his ex to divorce him? In other words, you seem to hold the divorce part responsible while that is merely the effect, not the cause.
Furthermore, most of us have been in relationships even though it wasn't marriage, and have experienced break-ups. Marriage is no more than an offical, legalized relationship.
A relationship with a partner with kids is more complicated than without kids, I agree with that.