I can understand why you would be gun shy, but I don't think the guy being divorced, a father, or older had anything to do with it. Possessiveness, jealousy and selfishness appear to be the problems. I agree that a man should put his kids first, after all, as a woman, I put my kids first. Sounds like this guy used it as an excuse for everything.
The other problem that I see is that you moved too fast. A month is not long to get to know a person. Take a little longer next time. It could save you a lot of heartache.
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