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Originally Posted by stripysweatergirl

As long as the relationship is good, this can be another opportunity to learn social skills. You can learn to make friends without relying on flirting your way to them. You can make friends while still being attentive and loving to your girlfriend. Relationships don't have to be a cage. You're obviously already competent at meeting new people. Are you up for a new challenge?

Actually... my gf just made me an interesting suggestion: let's be less together for a while. Spending a night together like once a week. So I can do whatever I wish (expect having sex of course) and she doesn't keep eye on me all the time. So we can have our own lives. I said we could also cut down our online chatting- and then I came up with an idea: a closed blog where we can talk all this mess out loud so we don't have nothing to fight when we actually meet. Well she created such a blog (this is quick).

Originally Posted by James81

2. You have a desire to explore what else is out there. Take it from me, that feeling doesn't go away. I married the first girl I had sex with, and I spent the entire relationship always wondering in the back of my mind what it would be like to be with another woman.

Yep, this might become a problem.

Originally Posted by James81

4. The relationship is causing you to move backward instead of forward. You are losing progress that you had made before you got into the relationship (decreasing social life). That is a HUGE red flag right there.

I can't blame this relationship. It's me who let it go this way.

Well... right now I have kind of nothing to lose. I'll start increasing my social life right away. I have no problem with her suggestion. I'd like learn to be happy without a woman / women. So I wouldn't end up having sex for a while anyway. I'm too exhausted to do anything dramatic just now. I'm not doing well if I can't have good time with people without sex.

I have nothing to lose, so I might discuss with her about my desire of other women. Why not.