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ar81 · 10-29-2009, 02:58 PM

I would not worry too much.
You look like a normal teen.

During teenage your body suffers biochemical changes that cause you to overreact and see problems bigger than they are. Depression comes very often too. That's normal.

If you suffer weight problems, you may like to Google for "overeaters anonymous".

I appreciate your honesty, and you have my support.
You were as shy as I was. Do not worry, in time you will challenge your fear of rejection. In my case I asked 9 different girls to be my girlfriend and got a NO before I got my first YES. That was quite a challenge for me. I did not die because of a NO.

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ar81 Family Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 2,756	I would not worry too much. You look like a normal teen. During teenage your body suffers biochemical changes that cause you to overreact and see problems bigger than they are. Depression comes very often too. That's normal. If you suffer weight problems, you may like to Google for "overeaters anonymous". I appreciate your honesty, and you have my support. You were as shy as I was. Do not worry, in time you will challenge your fear of rejection. In my case I asked 9 different girls to be my girlfriend and got a NO before I got my first YES. That was quite a challenge for me. I did not die because of a NO. Last edited by ar81; 10-29-2009 at 03:00 PM.