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Originally Posted by Tristan Bull  Hey man,
I think you are getting way too caught up in stereo types and belonging to a certain "group" or "style".
It probably sounds like lame advice but just be you. STOP CARING ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK
Here is the big thing you need to understand, most people don't care.
Seriously!
You care about the way you look because it's YOU.
Most people are too busy worried about how they look, how their hair is, how their dress is etc. to even notice what's going on with you.
It sounds like you think that you need to be accepted.
What you really need to do is accept yourself and then like it.
Instead of focusing on all of the things you don't like focus on what you do like about yourself.
The thing about fasion is that is changes all the time.
Sometimes I wear a shirt and jeans, sometimes I suite up, sometimes I wear a tie, sometimes I wear a crazy hat and jacket.
It changes all the time, go to the shop and buy clothes that YOU like and that YOU want to wear and then you will develop a natural style.
Also look into imporoving your self esteem, your self confidence and your self worth.
Good luck 
Tristan |
Thank you ..I kinda wondered to myself about this..
If people really not analyze and judge others and not care...then that's great, I would start feeling less shy when talking to others, etc. Sometimes I just feel as if I'm the center of attention, I don't know why. Like in the classroom, when the teacher starts talking to me, I feel like EVERYONE has their eyes on me and judges me. I get scared and frightened. But if people really aren't even judging or caring, then that's great. Hope it's like that for real..But I kinda judge people, I don't know, maybe it's a very bad habit of mine. I want to change that too.
Have any tips on improving my self esteem, self confidence and self worth? I REALLY need to improve those.
This is kinda weird, but....I tend to be treated like a kid by some people, or most. People smile at me, or sometimes make fun of me, not in an insulting way, but they treat me like a little kid.. Is it my face, the way I act, or what? Should I take this as that people treat me in an insulting way? Like, teachers like to make fun of me, in a good way..they kinda act over-nice to me, for some reason, I don't know.