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Originally Posted by Nimo  Hey, good for you to let go of that which causes you more pain/discomfort/unhappiness bla bla for smethng better. I too recently let go of an approx 2 yr relatnship. It was tough at first..i thought i'd go crazy but here I am, as sane as Bush and taking on new challenges...am even warming up to meeting new p'ple ( that r'shp sucked me dry of friends, sanity etc). No point driving into a dead end where other roads leading to i-dnt-knw-whr-but-anywhere-other-than-here-is-better await your exploration. Forgive you and 'ur partner', be grateful for what's gone down, work thro' the anger/bitterness or whatever other -ve vibe you may have then hop along to a better brighter future . P/S: I've learnt that holding on is akin to scarcity thinking 'oh, have to hold on here because i might never find another one for me'-puhliz! |
Sounds like you did the right thing. I've done it; more than once and have no regrets at all.
As long as one person is totally in your life, it's much more difficult to make room for whomever it is you would rather have in your life. I mean, you can only spend so much time with someone and there are only so many hours in a day; so sometimes you have to make some room for someone else.