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Originally Posted by cylon  Having no kindness is actually a challenge many women will want to take--see if they can turn the bad boy into a nice guy. That gets their motors running. |
Really? Where do you get that from? Because I can't think of a single instance in my life where I was attracted to a guy who acted mean or showed no kindness. I can think of a few men I know like that, and I find them rather repellent. My last partner revealed increasing lack of empathy towards me and others the longer I knew him and I grew less attracted to him in equal measure.
Running through the male partners of my female friends, the most successful partnerships are with men who are kind and supportive, not bad. Why are you so convinced showing no kindness is a good strategy, in your experience?