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Originally Posted by cylon  Women have zero compassion for men who aren't masculine. They actually enjoy hurting them. A weak man brings that out of a woman whereas if he were the dominant one, she wouldn't feel compelled to punish him for not holding up his part of the bargain. The whole point is that a masculine man doesn't stand for something like that, and that's how he keeps her attracted to him. Guys need to realize this and stop watching Everyone Loves Raymond, and quit listening to the p.c. crap about how the genders are the same. This is where feminism brought us. It's great women have more rights and freedom but along with it came men who were ashamed to have penises. |
Weakness, wimpiness, passive-aggressiveness, dishonesty, acceptance of abuse, neediness and indecisiveness are unattractive traits in either sex. Women don't have much compassion for those traits in other women, either... there's nothing more frustrating than a friend who lets her boyfriend treat her like ♥♥♥♥♥ but hangs onto the relationship desperately because 'I LOVE him' or 'I can't imagine being without him'. 'Nice guy' or 'nice girl' are such misnomers, because they're taken as shorthand for passive-aggressive, dishonest or weak traits.
There's nothing wrong with genuine niceness - compassion, patience, generosity, thoughtfulness - that's what women mean when they say they want a nice guy, not 'someone who will worship me and let me make all the decisions'.
Wouldn't you be attracted to a woman who knows her own mind, is honest with you about her desires, is self-confident and not needy, and is emotionally strong?
Those aren't gender specific traits, they're the traits of a good partner. Or is that 'PC crap'?