Steve, Erin, Separatoin was a first post which insulted and disappointed me since I became regular visitor of your site (since end of 2005). You was so close to be a perfect pair, and be a good example for others. Every day I train my wife on things out of this website and tried to apply things you advise, but what will I tell her tonight, Steve and Erin separate, let's try the same... No, I will not do that... I love my wife and my kid. Regarding you both I am completely depressed
but respect your desision and wish you all the best.