No you didn't step on my toes at all... I appreciate your approach and also your acknowledgement that no matter what we change in our lives, parts of ourselves from past days still remain and they shouldn't be totally dismissed, but honoured.
I think that my urgency with this particular matter actually has nothing to do with CT's at all. It's more to do with my current emotional state! I have been in recovery for quite some time from PTSD and have just gotten back from my mothers the other day, where she behaved pretty horribly towards me. She left my father about 2 years ago, and there are just alot of lies between them...they both just lie so much. She's bitching about all this stuff to me about dad, trying to make him look bad, and he's doing the same to me for the same reasons...theyre both just screwed up and I keep putting up my boundaries so that they don't use me to get back at each other...but they ignore my boundaries and then make me out to be not nice for not wanting to be their counsellor! I'm pretty empathis, so I can sometimes lose my own identity in other peoples issues, especially when they are constantly dumping their problems onto me and not giving a damn about my feelings or my issues. So, I guess the whole exposing of lies factor that goes with CT's is something that does trigger me at the moment. Thanks for helping me get to the bottom of this rei.
