Hi, everyone. Betrade, I want to thank you for sharing your story. I come from a nuclear family. I've seen my parents going through some rough patches but the word "divorce" never came out of their lips as far as I know. I'm so glad that they are still together after all these years. I can't tell you how important it is for me to have both a father figure and a mother figure in my life. My parents are strong and soft in different ways, if this makes any sense. I've learned different lessons from each of them. Even though I'm in my thirties, I know that news of a divorce would still leave me broken-hearted.
I think having "complete freedom" to do whatever you want is over-rated. I used to wish that I were a millionaire so that I could live life as I wish. What a foolish idea that was (at least for me). Has anyone else read
The Paradox of Choice? I tend to overanalyze and worry so having a million bucks in my bank account would probably make life worse for me. Of course, this is only a conjecture, but an educated one at that.
Thank goodness that "complete freedom" is trapped in the Pandora's box. I think "limit" is here for a reason. I've never been financial well-off but always managed to find resources to conduct life experiments on a small scale. For instance, I found out after spending only a few thousand dollars (over a period of time) on courses and a small options account that trading wasn't for me. I'm glad that I didn't have $50,000 to waste on the experiment.
I was surprised when I read Steve's "Separation" post, but I wasn't shocked. I've come to expect the unexpected from Steve. So, people, just let things (i.e. whatever you read here) roll off your backs.
Best wishes to all.