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Originally Posted by improver  thanks
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Sometimes..I see someone, guy or girl, and I want to be friends with them, and I also have a sense that he or she wants to be friends with me, but neither of us come up to the other and say a word. We may have eye contact a couple times, but after that, that's it. |
maybe that person is also shy, waiting on you to make the first move.
what you said about feeling like you're making all the effort to start a friendship, i've been there too. but sometimes the other person is a bit quiet too, we're often interested in befriending folks who are similar to us. or sometimes they had a bad day or something. we don't always know and we rarely know what someone is thinking. are you saying you're less interested in becoming friends with someone if you feel like the only one who's trying? or do you think if they don't seem like they are trying hard, they must not want to be your friend?