Erin, I have a great respect for you for sharing this experience so candidly with your readers. It is fascinating to read the comments offered so far, both here and on Steve's thread.
No doubt, like with topics of diet and exercise, you will receive tons of useful advice.
You two have been role models for others in so many ways. I expect that will continue in this chapter, as well.
Thank you for your generosity in being so honest and open about your life. I wish you all the best for your new adventures, with lots of love and the fewest possible judgmental onlookers.