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improver · 10-27-2009, 07:42 PM

thanks

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Sometimes..I see someone, guy or girl, and I want to be friends with them, and I also have a sense that he or she wants to be friends with me, but neither of us come up to the other and say a word. We may have eye contact a couple times, but after that, that's it. I wish there was a way to show that I want to be friends with him/her and a way for them to do the same, because inside we know that we could be good friends if we met each other.

Also, I have only about 60 friends on my facebook, and I sometimes feel sad or embarassed about that..i don't know if i should..
and in those 60 friends, I don't even hang out with one.

Nowadays I've been somewhat trying to get a friend. I talk to some people...face my fears, etc. But sometimes that person doesn't talk to me without me talking to him/her..I feel as if he / she doesn't want to be friends with me, and it is only I who's trying hard to get one..

10-27-2009, 07:42 PM	#7 (permalink)
improver Senior Member Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 101	thanks ______________ Sometimes..I see someone, guy or girl, and I want to be friends with them, and I also have a sense that he or she wants to be friends with me, but neither of us come up to the other and say a word. We may have eye contact a couple times, but after that, that's it. I wish there was a way to show that I want to be friends with him/her and a way for them to do the same, because inside we know that we could be good friends if we met each other. Also, I have only about 60 friends on my facebook, and I sometimes feel sad or embarassed about that..i don't know if i should.. and in those 60 friends, I don't even hang out with one. Nowadays I've been somewhat trying to get a friend. I talk to some people...face my fears, etc. But sometimes that person doesn't talk to me without me talking to him/her..I feel as if he / she doesn't want to be friends with me, and it is only I who's trying hard to get one.. Last edited by improver; 10-27-2009 at 07:48 PM.