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Originally Posted by profitatlast  Hi Improver,
I agree with the last poster.
If you were to hear us say you are unattractive or overweight or whatever, you would be even more depressed and unsure of yourself. If we were to say you were good looking and perfect you would doubt us and think we are only trying to make you feel better.
This is because you are not happy with yourself at the moment. Here is some advice. FIRST fix yourself inside - iow, do what you need to do to be happy with yourself as a person. A good test is: would you like to be your friend if you were someone else? If not why not? Work on your inner strengths and weaknesses first and once you are happy with yourself as a loving person that people look forward to being with, you will notice that your style and looks don't play a critical role in your life.
Let us know how you get on and good luck.
Fran  |
Okay, thanks for the reply.
I would be a friend with myself if I were someone else..but I think I'm boring.. Like I don't even know how to bring up a good conversation. I usually act weird when talking with someone, my hands can't stay still, as if I'm shaking, and I speak very fast, somewhat even incoherent. But, I don't know.. Maybe I just have a huge ego, and I want that to go away!
Oh by the way - QUOTE -
If we were to say you were good looking and perfect you would doubt us and think we are only trying to make you feel better.So when people say I look good, are they really just trying to make me feel better? I wonder that a lot, and I doubt.. I don't know when people mean it or not..