The definition of nice guy is "dude who puts up with more than he should."
And dating a BPD for a nice guy is almost mandatory. I know I did it.
But I think in the last year or so the term "nice guy" is being seen for what it is and that's a good thing, whereas it used to be a virtue.
"Nice guy" and "guy who is generous and considerate" are worlds apart. They are actually opposites.
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