improver, things like self-image are better found within us.
i feel like you want us to tell you whether you seem attractive or unattractive. or want us to say you are attractive no matter what. our opinions on your looks don't matter. your opinions matter.
i also think you might be using self-image as an excuse. self-image is your own responsibility primarily, and you are responsible for your social skills whether you have a perfect self-image or not. you may not like this piece here because i am empowering you to accept responsibility for your beliefs.
style is a fairly complex thing. have you tried different styles? preppy, professional, classic, skater, goth, emo, j. crew. (probably preppy), etc.? what type of personality traits would you want people to notice from your clothing? the traits you want them to see, or want reflected to the world, will influence what style is right for you.
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