[lifetimelearner]

Originally Posted by Dimond

Vermilion (and anyone else struggling), it makes no sense to spend years wanting to make a change and doing nothing. Just do something, anything even small to get yourself away from your current situation. It can be take a class or workshop, it could be join a group, take up a new hobby, anything you can possibly do so you aren't just unhappily thinking about doing something for years. Minor action leads to all kinds of things. It's not necessary to know anything for sure when you make these small choices. Whatever you have a slight interest in, explore until you find something you love. Then eventually you take more action and hopefully you will end up turning your life into one you enjoy. Anything is better then just sitting around being miserable.

wow great advice