Keeping my married name doesn't make me feel attached to Steve at all. It makes me feel attached to ME since that is the name I identify myself with now. My maiden name sucks, to be quite honest, and I ain't going back to that sucker ever! I could see perhaps creating a new last name for myself, something involving a conscious choice, but for now, with so much changing, I'm glad that isn't changing.
I appreciate all your thoughts and uh, predictions. We'll see what happens.