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Old 02-21-2007, 02:50 PM   #20 (permalink)
Boreas
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Default Focus on the Present

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Originally Posted by judge45 View Post
Send it out and you will get it back.

Recently I felt my relationship with my wife was lacking.

So I made a conscious effort to be more affectionate and caring.

The difference has been fantastic, it's made our bond so incredibly better.

Don't be afraid of love, there are essentially two emotions, love and fear.

When you give, share and feel love, no one can hurt you.

Your always come from a position of strenght.

Don't be fear, be love.

It's all you need.

And whatever you do focus on the moment, not the past or the future, no regrets, every moment is your first and your last.

HTH

Jeff

Thank you so much for posting this, it is great! Beautiful!

I have the same problem as NightwhosaysNI in terms of getting intimite, the whole thing makes me feel ashamed or defeated...but I noticed when I go on trips and meet people I am happy and free with them, I give hugs and kisses, and give my all in having a good time. When I am not travelling I focus on the future, and I think of regrets (the past). When I focus on the future I get scared, and think of the way becoming more intimite will affect my little world. What I should do is focus on the beauty and the passion of the moment, and say it won't affect the future and just be consumed. I think this is an answer for a lot of things.

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