You ever read Jung?
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Is it possible you are just integrating your animus (male side) into your psyche?
I think perspective is a pretty variable thing, especially in terms of what you find attractive. Who knows, you might wake up and be attracted to grape fruit tomorrow. So if its distressing to you at all, maybe you should just concentrate on the nonsexual aspects of life for a bit and come back to it when it doesnt seem like an urgent problem.