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Originally Posted by rhyaand  Yikes, that sounds like no fun at all (the non-orgasmic part  ) |
Non-orgasmic lovemaking has it's own charms, when done in an intimate loving relationship. It changes the focus from getting off to being absorbed in the moment and aware of one's partner and one's own pleasure and experience --- when done in the right frame of mind and with an open heart, combined with eye contact and a deep gaze, it's the most powerful way I know to bond with your lover and create a powerful energetic connection (qi flow), but I only recommend it if you and your partner are already in love and committed to one another.
It's not something I prefer all the time --- I'm not looking to give up mutual orgasms --- but long slow sessions of non-orgasmic sex are mind-blowing in their own way.