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BitterFlower · 10-26-2009, 08:46 PM

I'll bite and put myself out there a little bit.

I am a lot like you rei. I believe sexuality is on a spectrum and that it isn't black and white for everyone. Even so, just because I'm a little bisexual does not mean I'm "confused" (a stereotype perpetuated by straights and gays alike).

For me, I can appreciate the beauty of a woman's body. I have been with one woman, but I really have no desire for that again. I also wouldn't be in a relationship with a woman. I'm friends with mostly guys and I relate to guys much better than women.

I suppose if I would put myself into a box, it may be confusing, because, publicly, I would say I'm hetero. Privately, I might say I'm slightly bi, but only if it comes up. But since I don't desire and am not actively pursuring a relationship with a woman, I don't feel the need to wave my flag.

10-26-2009, 08:46 PM	#2 (permalink)
BitterFlower Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2009 Location: Georgia, USA Posts: 147	I'll bite and put myself out there a little bit. I am a lot like you rei. I believe sexuality is on a spectrum and that it isn't black and white for everyone. Even so, just because I'm a little bisexual does not mean I'm "confused" (a stereotype perpetuated by straights and gays alike). For me, I can appreciate the beauty of a woman's body. I have been with one woman, but I really have no desire for that again. I also wouldn't be in a relationship with a woman. I'm friends with mostly guys and I relate to guys much better than women. I suppose if I would put myself into a box, it may be confusing, because, publicly, I would say I'm hetero. Privately, I might say I'm slightly bi, but only if it comes up. But since I don't desire and am not actively pursuring a relationship with a woman, I don't feel the need to wave my flag.