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amj · 10-26-2009, 05:42 PM

I'm speaking from my own experiences in my city, state, country.

We actually discussed this topic in one of my college classes a few years ago. Here is what the teacher told us:

Men treat sex as a fun activity ie shooting hoops
Women treat sex as a time for emotional bonding

Many men who cheat on their woman still have feelings for them and love them very much
Many women who cheat on their man no longer like/love their mate

For most men, sex and emotions do not go hand in hand
For a woman the opposite is true

I have spoken to many of my friends about this and we all feel the same way. Having sex with a woman you love is great but that doesn't stop the urge to have sex with other women. Women usually don't cheat unless they no longer care for their mate. Men usually cheat because having sex with other women is fun, not because they don't love their mate. I know many women don't want to hear this but it's true. Ask a man and he will agree with what I am saying.

10-26-2009, 05:42 PM	#29 (permalink)
amj Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2009 Posts: 315	Men cheating on women I'm speaking from my own experiences in my city, state, country. We actually discussed this topic in one of my college classes a few years ago. Here is what the teacher told us: Men treat sex as a fun activity ie shooting hoops Women treat sex as a time for emotional bonding Many men who cheat on their woman still have feelings for them and love them very much Many women who cheat on their man no longer like/love their mate For most men, sex and emotions do not go hand in hand For a woman the opposite is true I have spoken to many of my friends about this and we all feel the same way. Having sex with a woman you love is great but that doesn't stop the urge to have sex with other women. Women usually don't cheat unless they no longer care for their mate. Men usually cheat because having sex with other women is fun, not because they don't love their mate. I know many women don't want to hear this but it's true. Ask a man and he will agree with what I am saying.