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Originally Posted by rei  oh, i brought up the emotional unavailability for the potential benefit of other women because that is a fairly common complaint. i have not actually tried to have a relationship with an emotionally unavailable man. at least not a romantic relationship. |
Lucky you
I was married to one. Started out fine, but as time went on, it got old. Unfortunately for him, I started getting in touch with my emotions and wasn't able to maintain the status quo. So guys, while clingy is indeed unattractive, emotionally unavailable doesn't work either. I would hazard a guess that it works both ways, men don't find clingy women attractive, but would they really want one that is emotionally unavailable??