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Old 10-26-2009, 05:02 PM   #115 (permalink)
alphafox
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Originally Posted by smartile View Post
Hi Steve,

Although I won't admit it publicly just yet, I wonder how things will unfold for us.

Steve
It would appear you just have Steve Martile!

I wish all the very best to Steve and Erin, however I don't believe just because their specific marriage hasn't worked means that marriage and monogamy are unworkable in all cases. I believe if you have a clear vision for your future and goals and find a partner with the same long term goals, outlook and values it *can* work. It does require honesty and clarity from both, and although people's goals can change over time, it doesn't necessarily mean they will amount to an impasse in the relationship. I remain optimistic about long term relationships despite the fact it has not worked out for Steve and Erin. Each to their own.
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