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Originally Posted by Bliss Sage  I'm sorry, this is ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥. If he didn't want kids, he should have thought of that before he had them! Isn't there enough people in the world farting out babies like so much excrement and then abandoning them or torturing them with their own insanity??
There is so much wrong with having kids and then deciding it was a mistake and going off to put your own happiness first!! Having kids is the biggest responsibility in the world!! Forget marriage! Raising kids is far more important! These are human beings!! You don't say, after making human beings "Well, there's nothing wrong if Steve doesn't want or like his kids. He's free to do whatever will make him happy." These are human beings who did not ask you to bring them into the world! You wittingly, and with full knowledge of what you were doing, brought them into the world yourself, by your own free will. You have the biggest obligation ever to them! Sorry, you are not free from your kids!!
Is there no limit to the self-consuming narcissism that has infiltrated PD?? I would have thought, at least, where children are concerned, this "your-happiness-is-all-that-matters" attitude would not have permeated. |
Well, from my point of view, you only get to live once so you have to make the best out of it and put your happiness above everything else. He's not abandoning the kids, he's still going to pay the child support and keep up his financial obligations. He's probably also going to regularly remain in touch with them.
But other than that, he has every right to live his own life and have his own space and freedom if he wants to.