First I want to thank you for answering Lychee.
Now as for the questions you ask, I find the last one to hit right on the spot. You ask what if a group of people don't like me. Will I try to adjust my behaviour to fit their standards? Yes, that's the case. And that is exactly what I want not to do.
Well, I know that I have to change some things about myself in order to suit to my environment, but what I really crave is me being the one who makes things happen and not passively accepting what others feed me.
For that to happen, I have to know exactly what it is that I want. Which is a big part of the whole problem. For example, if I want to go out with someone it is most probable that I will invite him to join me for a cup of coffee or to come along for football with others. I am not the guy who hungs out in cool places and does cool things that others want to take part in.
You see, until a year or so before, I was totally into videogames. That is why I believe that I have limited options in this area of my life. I know, for instance, that clubs are cool places that attract lots of people my age but I don't feel comfortable in there; especially when it comes to dancing.
Overall, I don't get it when it comes to hanging out and creating to others that frame of reference for me that says: "He is a cool guy. Wish I could go out with him some time again in the future." It has happened, before, once or twice but accidentally, from my part.
I want to be able to create that impression by what I say and what I do and how I do it anytime in my life. I know that I ask too much, but, at least, there must be some guidelines for that matter.
Thanks again Lychee for your time.
